Budhos, Marina. 2006. Ask me no questions. New York: Atheneum Books for Young Readers. ISBN 9781416903512
Plot Summary
In the wake of 9/11 and a crackdown on illegal Muslim immigrants, 14-year-old Nadira and her family flee to the Canadian border seeking asylum. When they are turned back at the border, Nadira’s father is detained, facing deportation. Nadira and her older sister, Aisha, return to Queens alone and try to resume their routines. As months pass, Aisha breaks under the stress of working toward a future that she can no longer be certain of, high school valedictorian and acceptance into a prestigious college. It is up to Nadira, a plump underachiever overshadowed by her gifted sister, to fight the way through a bureaucratic nightmare to reunite her family and assure their place in America.
Critical Analysis (Including Cultural Markers)
Ask No Questions presents the difficult reality faced by many Muslim illegal immigrant families who were tacitly accepted into the framework of American life, until the acts of terrorists turned the tide of public opinion and government leniency. Although the story is specifically about a Bangladeshi family with a focus on the after effects of 9/11, it represents the fears and difficulties faced by any illegal immigrant family.
Budhos spares most of the details of detention and the residency application process, focusing instead on the effect that possible deportation and a family separated has on the teen daughters. Nadira’s feelings of invisibility within her own family reflect the family’s invisibility to the bureaucrats and judges who will determine the family’s fate. Aisha’s dramatic, yet believable, breakdown in the face of losing all that she has worked for provides the incentive for Nadira to step forward and make herself, and her family, seen.
Nadira draws strength from remembering stories her father told about the resiliency of the Bangladeshi people in the face of seasonal floods and borders redrawn by uncaring politicians. “There’s a Bangla phrase: ar chor gora, ei niye amader jibon. ‘The land breaks and new land forms.’ This is our life.” Nadira’s family and extended family exhibit a wide variation in degrees of assimilation of American culture. Nadira’s parents allow her and her sister more freedom from the traditional expectations of Muslim women, while her aunt and uncle try, unsuccessfully, to impose those expectations upon their rebellious daughter. Nadira’s mother surprises everyone by breaking out of her shell of self-imposed seclusion, due to her insecurities about her command of the English language, and adopting American style dress in an effort to help her husband during his detention. While Nadira finds comfort, and the key to her father’s release, in the calm presence of a devoutly religious Muslim friend of the family.
Review Excerpts
Horn Book Magazine: “Nadira and Aisha’s strategies for surviving and succeeding in high school offer sharp insight into the narrow margins between belonging and not belonging, and though the resolution of the story is perhaps more optimistic than realistic, it feels earned.”
Kirkus Reviews: “Nadira's need for acceptance by her family neatly parallels the family's desire for acceptance in their adopted country. A perceptive peek into the lives of foreigners on the fringe.”
Connections
Marina Budhos presents interviews of real teenage immigrants in Remix: Conversations with Immigrant Teenagers. Booklist says “Whether they arrived from Ethiopia, Ukraine, or Bangladesh, their struggles are similar, and we see their confusion and exhilaration as they settle into a life where the rules are suddenly so different.”:
Budhos, Marina. 2007. Remix: Conversations with immigrant teenagers. Oregon: Resource Publications. ISBN 9781556356100